*TRIGGER WARNING* I found disturbing things on my exes ipad and don't know what to do: Advice?

My sons dad and I are divorced I have been fighting like hell for two years of his life to get supervised visits through Dhs because dad is a sex offender I ran as fast as I could when I got pregnant the day our son was born DHS opened a case that lasted 20 months and at the end despite the fact that during that process dad was diagnosed with Antisocial personality disorder he was still granted unsupervised visit which I hate… He also lives with his GF and her two very young girls clearly something wrong with her to allow this, but this weekend we had to take a very long road trip out of state, and his dad offered to allow us to use his IPad so that my son could watch TV and play games which I was like thank god! But here’s the issues I’m having a very sickening feeling about when I went to YouTube to search for my sons favorite show the following topics popped up Relationships between stepdad and stepdaughter Fathers having sex with their stepdaughters People killing themselves People brutally killing other people People killing autistic kids (which my son was recently diagnosed) Bad chainsaw accidents Car accidents where kids and adults are killed I’m scared shitless There is already a DHS case now cause my son came home with a cut on his privates but she said they have no findings and are closing out yes I have taken pictures but I’m at a loss of what I can do there is a court order for visits but for now I won’t let him go I’ll make excuses anyone have any advice, please do not judge me as I am trying damn hard to protect my son even if it cost me going to jail for violating a court order I have made a new report to DHS, but they never take me seriously

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Call the police!!! Show them the iPad and keep your baby away from that monster!!!

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Take pictures of everything. Go straight to the police with information. Talk to attorney right away.

Sending you hugs. I am so sorry.

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Take the IPad to the police.

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Witness protection services! And that " donor" is very nasty looking up all of this crap on his I pad and then giving it to his son. Sicko psycho!!!

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File for emergency custody and call the police.

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Omg did u call the police nd file. A report? Did they do a rape kit or anything? Those kids are NOT safe

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Oh my lordy. Contact the police and go straight back to court and revoke his rights. Clearly unfit to be around ANY child let alone your own. No judgment in my end though mama. Keep fighting though.

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Turn that device straight over to the police.

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id go to the police and to your solicitors and get a safeguard put in place asap , id be scared aswell of i was in your situation x

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Report report report and provide the damn info to your lawyer… Or move out of country

You need to call the police… like yesterday

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Screenshot his top searches if you can!! Your not just safeguarding your child but the other womans too!! Sounds like he defo needs supervision at least!! Hope your okay and get sorted not an easy position to be in xx

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Call DHS, the state, police, and an attorney.

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The system is a mess. Fight to gain full custody of your little one with supervised visits for the father. Keep record of your findings from the iPad. Use those against him along with texts & emails. Don’t let your son be a victim of child sexual abuse.

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Dont let him have any idea though or he’ll have time to delete!! Xx

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…bring that to the police immedietly.

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Take photos, gather and keep all evidence of this- take photos of the search history & make sure you take this to the police & show your case manager… Refuse to see him or allow your child too & if asked explain exactly why with evidence (otherwise it’s just your word against his.)
I would also alert the GF of what you have seen so she is aware, if she decides to stay and not protect her girls that’s on her and not you, at least that way she knows what’s going on.

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If the dates show they were searched in the time he had the ipad. Then then you have a case. Please take the ipad to the police

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Keep those sites in the iPad and show your workers. That’s SOOOO NOT RIGHT!!

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