What should I get my childs father for Father's Day if he isn't involved?

Long story short, my child’s dad isn’t invoked in our lives really at all unless it’s convenient for him ( seen her maybe 5 Time since Christmas and 3 of those times he was so messed up I told him to leave) he doesn’t call and talk to her nothing. She actually doesn’t even call him dad never has referred to him by his name and will tell you she does not have a dad. I’ve always made the point though to get him something every year, but in the last year, he’s just been not involved at all. And I really don’t want to waste money on something expensive.

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I give what he gives, nothing!

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If he’s not involved why even get anything? Just leave it be. Did he get you anything for mother’s day? Probably not.

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:roll_eyes::roll_eyes::roll_eyes: why would u even think of getting him anything ? :clown_face:

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Until he starts acting like a father wouldn’t recognize him on Father’s Day!

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Nothing!!! What does he get YOU for MOTHER’S day???

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I wouldn’t bother getting him anything.

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You shouldn’t be buying him anything if he is not involved. He doesn’t deserve something just because he made a baby. It takes a whole lot more to be a father.

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I wouldn’t bother. Anyone can make a baby but it takes a real man to be a father.

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A picture… so he can remember he has a daughter and needs to tighten himself up.

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Offer her paper and markers to make a card?

Nothing, get yourself something instead?
But if you feel the need to maybe just a card or have her color him a picture.

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Seriously? Why waste time on a deadbeat. Your poor daughter deserves better

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Also it’s just a Hallmark holiday anyway

NOTHING!!
Only good fathers deserve to be celebrated on Father’s Day!!!
A child should never have to wonder if their father loves them.
He should be ashamed of himself not given a gift!
And if he asks why, I’d tell him exactly how I feel!

Nothing. A man not involved with his kid doesn’t even deserve a happy Father’s Day.
Your child even says she doesn’t have a dad. At that point it’s not even worth the littlest of efforts at all.

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Daddy’s get Father’s Day gifts, not sperm donors

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Nothing. Not your responsibility.

Just have your daughter make him a card and put a picture of her in it…other than that you shouldn’t waste your money. Hell, by yourself something for Father’s Day since you’re pulling both roles :woman_shrugging:

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I wouldn’t get him anything :woman_shrugging:t2: