When should kids be left unsupervised?

How young is too young to be left alone? My kids are 1,2,6. My husband thinks leaving our kids in a room and leaving the room is fine. He will play on his video games. He will tell me to leave the room and take a break that his parents did it to him, and he turned out fine. My youngest bites, my middle child has a sensory disorder. I don’t think it a good idea, and we argue about it constantly. I believe we could do dishes while they play…but leaving the room for half hr is too much. He also thinks on family dinner nights with his family to allow the kids to be unsupervised. I am called the helicopter means parent because I won’t allow the kids by themselves in a room. One kid bullies my kids at the gatherings, and his parents don’t give him repercussions for his actions. He elbows my kids in the face, and his parent acts like it’s my kid’s fault, or they just say don’t do it. He’s very aggressive. What should I do? I’ve threatened not to go over there, but my husband will tell me he will take the kids and leave me at home. I’m scared my kids will get hurt. My youngest can’t even talk…he picks on him the most because of it. I’ve had to tell him to go to his mother, and he couldn’t play with us, whic,h led to a fight with my husband and me. He always takes there side over mine.

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One and two is too young. Six year old should be fine

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Maybe if the one and two yo are in a playpen

Your husband is the fourth child it sounds like! Sheesh :unamused:

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Maybe record how these other kids act with your child. Send each family member ignoring it the video. Tell them discipline their kids or you will. A swat on the ass never killed anyone.

I wouldn’t say they’re too young. But with age combinations, the biting, and the sensory issues I wouldn’t leave them all alone together

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This is a repeated post :thinking: from January…

Six is fine, one and two year old far too young x

Being a helicopter mom is fine especially for your younger children. I agree with the previous comment. Your husband is the fourth child and the bully. Stay in there mom. You will never regret it.

Depends what they’re doing in the room. I didn’t follow my kids around 24/7 and left them either alone or alone together in rooms their entire lives but again it depended on what they were doing (my kids ate 16, 8, 9 and the younger 2 are boys and super rough with eachother at times. Always have been. Probably always will be)

:joy::rofl::joy::rofl::joy::rofl: I’m the odd man out:::: they are fine. Is he leaving them in the bathtub alone? Is that room baby proofed? If not then … do it… then they can be left alone. Problem solved

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So we’re just repeating questions now? This is the second one I’ve seen that’s a repeat from last year. Word for word.

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6 year old is fine to be left alone. A 1 and 2 year old no way. They could put something in their mouth and choke.

Your husband is wrong on every level.

6 yr old fine for short periods… 1 and 2 year old?!? NO WAY! Way too many things could go wrong, and 6yr old should not be given the responsibility of keeping the other two safe- not the child’s job.

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My kids are 3 and 5 and I let them play alone in rooms.

Maybe they are repeating questions so they can get some more opinions. I don’t know why everyone is so pissed off about it :joy: like if you don’t like it… follow something else :woman_shrugging:t3:

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Not a 1 and 2 year old. To young to be left unsupervised and to young to have a 6 year old keep an eye out.

6 yo sure, but not the younger two.

That’s a lot of issues. Mine are one and three, we do not leave them alone ever. Like in the kitchen and they are in the living room, but it’s all connected! If we are at anyone else’s house, we DO NOT ever let them out of our sight