Why would my step daughter be having so many accidents?

Definitely check with her doctor! There could be a number of underlying health issues, including UTI, Kidneys, bladder, diabetes, etc…

Another not so great thought, has she been around anyone else? sexual abuse can cause a child to regress like that too.

Its very important to get her checked by a professional.

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Pandemic stress? Worth a call to the dr though, check for an UTI, or something else

Could be sexual abuse. Get that child some help.

My youngest son has this issue and he is 4. He wets the bed nearly every single night and that is with limiting water intake a couple hours before bed and making him use the potty prior to going to sleep. He has accidents during the day, though they arent as frequent now. However, it comes and goes in spurts as well where he will do great for a couple weeks and then it’s right back to it. His doctor said that he has an overactive and small bladder and has told me to bring him to the bathroom far more frequently than he is going, even if he says he does not have to go. Best of luck!

My son is 5 and has been potty trained for a long time and started sometimes wetting the bed at night only since he had covid. He has been way more tired and just sleeping harder since. I definitely wouldn’t discipline, it likely isn’t intentional.

Check for Type 1 diabetes with her doctor! Same exact thing happened to me and I was diagnosed at 5

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Maybe try a therapist? Sounds like she might be having some issues of her own that she doesn’t know how to deal with. Just a thought

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I’ve had this problem with two different kids. 1 was being abused and the other had bladder issues and had to see a specialist

Try a doctor she may have a urinary tract infection when I was young I got a couple they were not serious but it it made me pee a lot and I didn’t always make it to the bathroom and when I asked I was embarrassed and said I don’t know because I didn’t 🤷

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This happened to me when I was little. I was fully potty trained and then when I was about 4 or 5 I started wetting my pants for no reason. Turned out I was having petimal seizures. It’s a little misfire in the brain it was similar to daydreaming. It’s not like epilepsy or grandmal seizures, nobody ever even noticed it. All of a sudden I would just have wet pants. I went to a pediatrician then was diagnosed by a pediatric neurologist.

My daughter wet the bed till she was almost 8 than one day just stopped and she was potty trained at 2 almost 3 yrs old

UTI or not coping with school. Apparently I did the same when my teacher was forcing me to write right-handed. Solved the problem, solved the peeing.

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I would take her to the dr have them check her. Could be a medical problem

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Could be a UTI or could be constipation which can commonly cause pee accidents. Make sure she is going #2 every day and have a urine culture done for bacteria.

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my grandson at 7-8 years old , began bed wetting , he was Type 1 diabetic , please have her checked by Doctor ,

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Some sort of life change. Moved to a new house? Someone sick or pass in the family? New babysitter? New people? Something happen?

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Her bladder might be to small

Stop punishing her, especially if she cries when you try to talk about it. Ask her mother if anything has changed at her house, like overnight visitors.

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Stress. Is she around arguing? Maybe an irregular schedule? Not knowing where she’s going to be from day to day?

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Oh dear God pkease don’t scold her or make her feel bad fir this could be a medical issue or abuse lookinto it further please…

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