Would you be mad if your fiance was following girls on Tiktok?

What would you ladies do if you found your fiancé’s TikTok account and all he was following were young women in their bathing suits or half-naked? Do you find this disrespectful, or am I overreacting?

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While myself and many others will say overreacting your feelings are valid so speak on them with him… My take on it is he’s only following them and watching their videos… now if he’s messaging them or adding them to other social media’s then you definitely have a right to be upset. My girlfriend follows people and it doesn’t bother me… hell I tag her in videos of pretty girls or videos of girls with nice bodies :woman_shrugging:t3: good luck :heart:

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If you don’t like it than yes its disrespectful

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Every relationship will have its own boundaries!

These need to be discussed early on!

Me personally? Could care less. He’s welcome to go to the strippers with his friends!

I prefer a open relationship with communication and no secrets!

I know ALOT of men who hide these types of things from their spouses as the women are so jealous!

But if it’s mutually discussed in the beginning what triggers you , he should be respectful!

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It’s disrespectful for sure.

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It’s immature AF, yes

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It’s disrespectful and immature.

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I don’t like it. I don’t think it’s over reacting.

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Someone needs to grow up…🤷

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Regardless what others say YOUR FEELINGS are valid. That’s your boundary in a relationship and should be respected

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If you are unhappy with it then yes it’s disrespectful. Tell him how it makes you feel.

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He’s following their only fans as well, I can guarantee it.

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It’s extremely immature and disrespectful

If you are in a Christian relationship the Bible talks about these things and a man of God will not need or want to have those kinds of women around in any way and guard his heart from those types of temptations… most will laugh about having that kind of relationship and that guys gawking over women and lusting while married is “normal” and “how we need to accept it” but I assure you, it’s not normal, OR healthy.

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Ehh I feel like all
Men follow half naked chicks on social media. As long as you don’t know them personally and you don’t sleep with them it doesn’t matter what you look at.

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Sinful and will likely lead to worse things!!!

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If you dont like it than yes, its disrespectful. The only time it wouldnt be is if you guys sat down and discussed it and made an agreement together that it is okay.

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All men do not do this lol, for those saying that. Boys maybe

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I follow half naked more attractive men back🤷‍♀️ #petty

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My husband of 18 years does it but I am not worried about it he doesn’t know them I know where he lays his head at night and it’s with me hell I point some out to him saying hey baby look at her butt… but he has never gave me a reason to worry

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Dumb! On your account…just saying

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