Would you be mad if your fiance was following girls on Tiktok?

It personally doesn’t bother me, ive even told my fiance usernames of girls I think he’d like. But if your uncomfortable with it, discuss it with him. If he stops for you, that’s love and respect but if he refuses to unfollow then your gut.

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I’m too old for this :joy:

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If you were looking at half naked guys would he like it you say it’s a guy thing WRONG

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If you do not like it then yes it is a problem. Have you told him you don’t like this? Personally both me and my husband both have tiktok and it doesn’t really bother me because it’s not like he knows these people.

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Oooo I bet he follow hawkhatesyou or stepmommy

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It’s 100% disrespectful and DO NOT listen to these people telling you to get over it. You sit him down and let him know how you feel and you guys figure out what your boundaries are. Do it NOW before you marry him because if he refuses to respect you and your wishes and keep looking at half naked girls then he doesn’t deserve you and you’re better off without him.

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Look with him and then show him have naked men or naked men and be like dammmmmm . U like that. See how he reacts then tell him to stop. Me personally I will look right at them with my hubby .

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In the first few years of my relationship, I was extremely jealous! I mean… I was bad! He couldn’t look at another female without me climbing his ass! I pushed and pushed until we had major problems. I had to learn that the problem was with me… not him. We’ve been together for 27 years and I surrendered my insecurities a long long time ago. Your fiancé has chosen you to spend the rest of his life with… not the females on Tik Tok that he will never meet.

In my opinion its disrespectful.

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If you don’t like it or are not okay with it, and he knows? Then yes, it’s disrespectful. If he doesn’t know? You can’t be upset with him for a boundary you’ve never asked for. Sit down and talk with him about it. Tell him it makes you uncomfortable, and be honest with why, and try to find out from him why he is interested in that. Find a solution together - whether it’s what you want, because he agrees, it’s what he wants, because you agree, or a compromise to make both happy. But everyone has to agree on the solution.

Don’t go after him like he did something wrong though, especially if you’ve never made that dislike clear. Even if he’s wrong because he knew, going into a conversation like you’re scolding someone, will never work.

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It is disrespectful. Also isn’t tik tok for kids?

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My partner follows all Japanese girls accounts, I follow big wood cutting vikings

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Mine are all cops twerking and “life of a stripper” videos :rofl:

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DISRESPECTFUL AF.
I don’t tolerate that in any way.

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I would say bye bye. He is obviously not trustworthy and I see him cheating if you are foolish enough to marry. No respect for you. A total loser. Get out while you can.

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Men get away with a lot because it’s normal… we are taught… Get over it… boys will be boys right…? They ALL do it, right? Well yes and no

They get away with what you allow them to. This goes both ways. Most of the time if you did half the stuff they do, it would be an issue.

If you don’t feel comfortable with it and feel disrespected, talk to him about it. If he loves you… Your feelings and doing his part to keep you happy (I would think) are more important than needing to follow these people.
All relationships are different but one thing that should always be there is respect for one another.

I say all relationships are different. If he gets the OK to do stuff like that then you should be able to as well. You guys are supposed to be equals and respect for each others feelings and boundaries. Some women are ok with it and thats cool.

I don’t think it’s wrong to do but I feel these things need to be talked about early on.

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Years ago I would have said you’re overreacting. But then I found out my husband was cheating with an 25 year old “Instagram model” he was following. So my best advice is to keep your guard up and listen to your gut.

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No need to worry unless your finding messages or he is lying. At the end of the day we are all entitled to look.

It is human nature to look at the opposite sex. However, there should be boundaries.

Pfft. Wait until he spends money on onlyfans, then talk to us. lol

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