Would you be mad if your man was liking other girls posts on facebook?

What do I do my husband hates any holiday or celebration. He makes it absolutely horrible for myself and our children. In his mind, he thinks that the holidays should be canceled and other celebrations are just another day. I try to make everything special for our children so they will have positive memories of their childhood. He puts no effort into gift giving or even taking our children out to get gifts for me. I don’t know what to do, for he makes me hate the holidays because all I hear are snide remarks about the things that I am doing.

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This is so confusing :woman_facepalming: what’s him liking girls pics got to with him hating holidays??

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You may want try ways gain joy back into your life.

Depends on the context of the posts.

He has his own reasons for hating them and you have yours for caring about them.
I’d discuss a compromise of him at least staying out of the way and letting you and the kids live your best lives without his snark.
In return, you promise to stop attempting or wishing him be included.

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I think it’s two part question

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All you can do is your best ti continue making good memories and ignore his negativity. Though it might be time to accept his limitations. Doesn’t sound like it’s new here doesn’t celebrate so lower your expectations from him. Instead give the kids an opportunity to make a gift. Or take them shopping and turn your back.

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Huh?? What does the question have to do with the post??

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This is confusing…and I agree with your husband :woman_shrugging:t6: holidays are just another day

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to some, they are just another day. I know it’s frustrating. if he wants to be excuded, let him. do what makes you happy and ask a family member of yours (or close friend you trust) or take your kids gift shopping for you. don’t involve him and let him see how happy you are doing those things for your kids. if he stuns don’t want in the joy, that’s on him. stay strong and hang in there.

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I’m very confused. The question has nothing to do with the paragraph

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Again. This post is weird :joy:

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get rid of him and enjoy life with the kids

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What does hating holidays have to do with liking Facebook posts?

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Not everyone is a holiday and celebrations kind of person. I’m not. What you described is a lot like me. I wasn’t like that before my dad died in 2010.
I would try to figure out why this is happening, unless it’s always been like that. Depression is a major contributor to this type of behavior.

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Confused. You may need to reedit

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Folks you need to take control of your lives.

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He might have had a hard time with the holidays as a kid. But gift giving doesn’t equal happiness. Find out why he is being a grinch. Get to the heart of the matter. Know that the only person that determines your happiness is you.

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