Would you let your child go on vacation with their dad on short notice?

Would you let your ex take your child to Myrtle Beach? I will not be able to see her for three weeks after because the daycare my other children go to require a two-week quarantine, we do not have any vacation stipulation in our custody agreement, and she didn’t mention they were going, my daughter told me with a ten day notice. What can I try to do to stop them from going?

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Yes as long as u trust the dad

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My oldest goes on vacation with her dad every summer. So times I get a month notice sometimes a week.

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If it’s his time, why not let her go?

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Are you in good communication with the father? If so contact him and ask him if he can let you know about all the information you need. Also set a time so your daughter can call you once or twice a day. I feel a family vacation is good for your daughter you don’t want her to miss out.

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I would let her go. I moved 600 miles away with my dad on a 7 day notice to my mom (parents were married so it was a little different). My point is she’ll make some really good memories and appreciate the bonding time with her father.

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I would not and you can Contact a lawyer about it to to see want u can do

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just dont send her :tipping_hand_woman:

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If you can trust the dad to keep your child alive then let her go. Shes going to be making wonderful memories and will have a lot of fun. Don’t make her stay back and miss out for your own selfish reasons. She will just resent you for that.

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Is she going to miss school or get kicked out of day care? If not then just let her go.

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If you trust the dad ,why would you want to stop it? If you don’t, why would you let child have unsupervised visits with someone you don’t trust?

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Let her go with her dad

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Let her go. Why ruin the fun for her because of it? My sons dad just did the same thing but in the end it makes the child happy and now he’ll have memories to last him a lifetime.

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Let her go, she gets to make memories and have fun going away!

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Stopping it will backfire. Hugs.

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Why ruin the child’s vacation??

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Omg just let her go! Please! That’s memories she’s gonna make with her dad. She will carry that with her the rest of her life. Oh well if she has to quarentine… talk to father about her quarantining with him. It’s only 3 weeks, and there is such thing as facetime these days.

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Let that child go. You have a lifetime with her. She shouldn’t have to miss out on family trips with her father. A lot of men wouldn’t even try to take their children.

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Let her go. My son went with his dad every summer for 3 weeks and he has wonderful memories and experiences I couldn’t give him. I would never deny my child that. He has done things and met more people than I could have provided him with.

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I wouldn’t let my kids go if it was short notice. Do to trauma I need a lot of front loading when it comes to taking my kids.