A mom writes in asking for relationship advice. She says she found out she was pregnant shortly after divorcing her husband. She has since remarried, but she told her ex-husband about the baby. Now he wants to get back together, even though this mom-to-be is happy in her new relationship.
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A member of the community asks:
“My ex keeps pressuring me to come back because I am pregnant: Thoughts? Do I need advice? I got divorced and found out I was pregnant. I told my ex-husband. I since remarried and am extremely happy and healthy, but my ex-husband keeps pressuring me to go back to him because of the pregnancy?
My question is if I knew I was happier with my current S/O and was treated better, then how do I react appropriately? Because my ex is one day he wants me and the baby and the next he doesn’t… he doesn’t understand that I hurt, but yet I’m the only one at fault for the reason we aren’t together because I hurt him and he has feelings, but I don’t???”
Community Advice for This Mom Whose Ex-Husband Wants to Get Back Together Now That She’s Pregnant
To see what advice the Mamas Uncut Facebook community has for this mom in need, read the comments of the post embedded below.
The community offered this mom in need a lot of great advice. Read some of their responses below.
“Why are you even contemplating going back to him if you’re already remarried? He has nothing that he’s offering you, yet you’re still entertaining the idea which is why he keeps pushing it.”
“There should be no thoughts since you are married to someone else. Side note: why would you get married so quickly after the last marriage? You need time to heal. Your focus should be on yourself and your unborn child.”
“Like, What???? You’re already “happily” married so why is this even a question.”
“That all happened in a very short time? Ummm, anyhow.. ur current husband is the legal father of your child unless you ask for a DNA at birth.”
“If you love the new husband, not baby daddy than stay that way. If you have questions on how to act properly then don’t be with either one.”
“I don’t see your problem? You say your happy so why are you questioning yourself?”
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