JR Storment and Wife Jessica Brandes Pen Powerful Essays About Death of Their Son and Working Too Much

Power Couple Write Emotional Essays About Spending More Time with Family After Their 8-Year-Old Son Suddenly Dies

J.R. Storment, a tech mogul, and his wife, Jessica Brandes, faced an unimaginable loss last month when their son, Wiley, 8, died unexpectedly in his sleep. 

Storment and Brandes shared the emotional details about that day in essays posted on LinkedIn. Both Storment and Brandes noted in their pieces (his, hers) that they regretted working so much and not making more time for family. 

YOU MAY ALSO LIKE: How Losing My Mother Ruined Motherhood for Me

Power Couple J.R. Storment and Jessica Brandes Pen Emotional Essays After Death of 8-Year-Old Son Wiley

“Hug your kids. Don’t work too late. A lot of the things you are likely spending your time on you’ll regret once you no longer have the time,” Storment says in his essay. “If there’s any lesson to take away from this, it’s to remind others (and myself) not to miss out on the things that matter.” 

In her essay, Brandes, a naturopathic doctor, wrote, “If we’ve learned anything at all, it’s that life is fragile and time really can be so cruelly short. We wish a lot of things were different, but mostly we wish we’d had more time. If you are parents and have any capacity to spend more time with your kids, do.” 

View this post on Instagram

Explorations in the Gorge

A post shared by J.R. Storment (@stormental) on

Storment shared that he started his financial analysis company, Cloudability, the same month his twin sons were born. His hard work and dedication to the company resulted in it being acquired three months ago. However, Storment shared with employees that he had not taken more than a week off at a time off since his sons were born. 

View this post on Instagram

Just back from the frigid north… #got

A post shared by J.R. Storment (@stormental) on

Brandes found her son’s body in the morning and called Storment with the heartbreaking news. He wrote that, “the next thing I know I’m sprinting out the front door of the office with my car keys in hand, running ferociously across the street.” 

When Brandes and Storment came together at home, they took time to be with Wiley after the medics completed their investigation. 

“Our time was limited. It was not the way a parent should have to see their child, but it was all we had,” Brandes wrote. “We held his hand and fixed his hair and kissed his head until our time ran out.”

View this post on Instagram

Kalimera from Crete

A post shared by J.R. Storment (@stormental) on

Wiley had been diagnosed with a mild form of epilepsy called Benign Rolandic Epilepsy. It’s believed he died from Sudden Unexplained Death of Epilepsy (SUDEP). 

“SUDEP is generally seen to be unpredictable, unpreventable, and irreversible once it starts,” Storment explained. “It can be tied to a seizure but many times the brain just shuts down. Statistically, it was highly unlikely to hit our son: 1 out of 4,500 children with epilepsy are affected. Sometimes you end up the statistic.”

View this post on Instagram

Brunch buddies.

A post shared by J.R. Storment (@stormental) on

As the family heals from the terrible loss, they are focused on spending more time together as a family. “Out of the ashes have come many new and restored connections,” Storment wrote. “And I hope from this tragedy you consider how you prioritize your own time.” 

View this post on Instagram

Our handiwork during the first snow of the year.

A post shared by J.R. Storment (@stormental) on

“From now on, if you email or text me and my reply takes longer than expected, know that I am with the people I love sharing my time, creating my new identify and I encourage you to do the same,” said Brandes. 

About Mamas Uncut

Mamas Uncut is the place for moms online. We cover the latest news around motherhood and parenting, plus entertainment news as well – all with a mom-focused twist. Looking for parenting advice? We have plenty of it, all for moms, from moms. Our mission is focused solely on empowering moms and moms-to-be with the knowledge and answers they’re looking for. We don’t stop there though, we have expert advice on a range of topics, and all of our categories get updated multiple times a day, so if there’s one website for moms you need to bookmark, it’s Mamas Uncut. We cover it all, from the latest and trendiest baby names, in the US and all over the world, to advice for moms in the workplace, or mom to mom advice on balancing it all. Looking for an answer to a specific question you’ve have? Head over to our new answers section, where you can ask questions on a nearly endless amount of topics, and you’ll get answers fast – really fast. Mamas Uncut is more than just the place for moms, it’s the community of moms – all here to help, make friends, and more. Not sure where to start? Take a look at one of our key topic areas like Pregnancy or Relationships – if you’re looking for advice on a specific topic, there’s a pretty good chance that we’ve already written on it (a few times), or that it’s within our answers section. If you don’t have time to read the site every day, we also have a newsletter that you can control how often you want to receive – that way we send all of the must-see content for moms directly to your inbox – it’s that easy. So go ahead and take a look around, ask a question, or just keep reading, we’re glad you’re here.

Leave a Comment