Kellan Lutz’s Wife Loses Baby at 6-Months Pregnant

(Trigger Warning: This article talks about pregnancy loss and miscarriage.)

Actor Kellan Lutz and his wife of two years, Brittany Lutz, are mourning the loss of their unborn child. In Instagram posts shared by both Kellan and Brittany, the couple revealed Brittany was six months pregnant when she suffered a miscarriage.

On November 28, 2019, the couple announced they were expecting their first child together. Brittany shared a photo of the two of them sharing a kiss as they held up an infant-sized denim jacket.

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Can’t wait to meet you Little Lutz! ❤️

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Brittany simply captioned the photo, saying, “Can’t wait to meet you, Little Lutz!” And Kellan posted the same photo to his account, writing, “HAPPY THANKSGIVING 2019. So much to be grateful for this year… and even more so in 2020! So proud of my wife Brittany and so pumped for our lil family to grow into 3 + Koda. Get here already!”

Kellan and Brittany Lutz Lose Baby at 6-Months Pregnant
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Over the last two-and-a-half months, Brittany shared numerous photos of her baby bump and brought her followers along for the ride. She wrote in December that she first learned she was pregnant in March 2019, but the night before she was going to tell Kellan he was going to be a father, she started to cramp.

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“Our willingness to wait reveals the value we place on what we’re waiting for.” Charles Stanley ⁣ ⁣ I got married at almost 31, long after I thought I would. I am pregnant now at 32 after countless negative tests, a lost pregnancy, & a surgery to fix problems in my uterus and create a hospitable environment to actually grow a child. ⁣ ⁣ None of it happened the way I thought it would & definitely not in the time frame I thought it would. Could I have gotten here faster? Maybe. Some obstacles were out of my control but 100% there was a portion of time I was not in the right place to meet the right person. ⁣ ⁣ I stayed in wrong relationships too long trying to talk myself into things. And my own issues with self worth caused me to downplay what I deserved for years. There have been more nights than I care to remember where I cried wondering if I’d ever meet the right person. And then after I did, nights where I cried wondering if I’d ever be able to be a mother the way I always envisioned. ⁣ ⁣ But you know what? I wouldn’t change any of it. Because here and now, I understand what it’s like to long for something. To say “no” to good while, in blind faith & sheer discomfort, waiting for the “great.” To have to make tough decisions -and stand by them- knowing it was going to be worth it one day, even though it hurt like hell in the moment.⁣ ⁣ If you’re still waiting in faith for something, whatever it is, can I encourage you to stay strong? If you’re waiting with a good attitude & a hopeful heart, just know when you get it you will enjoy it more than so many others who didn’t go through the struggle because you’ll be looking with a heart of gratitude rather than lack. ⁣ ⁣ I can only hope that when I have my baby girl, rather than complaining about the challenges, I will remember the emptiness I felt in my womb and rejoice in the struggles knowing that the absence of those struggles would be the absence of this beautiful girl in my life. ⁣ ⁣ Learn from my experience: The pain during the wait, pales in comparison to the pain of settling and being stuck in the wrong thing. TRUST ME. I’ve been there. You can do this. You’re strong. The best is yet to come. ????

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“Back in March, right after my birthday, I was feeling a little extra ‘hormonal’ and considering we had been trying to get pregnant for nearly 6 months I thought, ‘Could this be it..? Oh God please let this be it.’ And with one test, it was confirmed, we had done it. We were actually pregnant.”

Brittany continued, at the time, “I know my story isn’t the most traumatic miscarriage story out there. But there’s still something devastating about thinking you have something or actually having it, and watching it slip through your fingers.”

Kellan and Brittany later learned that the reason she couldn’t carry a child was because she “had numerous fibroids (tumors) and endometriosis spots that were making it near impossible for my uterus to sustain a life.” However, after undergoing surgery, the couple was able to conceive again.

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Grateful. ????⁣ ⁣ I heard someone say “You don’t fall in love. It’s not a hole. You choose love.” I wholeheartedly agree with this. It doesn’t always feel like you’re choosing love in the moment because your emotions and feelings are right there encouraging you and leading you. That’s why it’s important we master our feelings and emotions. To make sure they’re leading us to true love & to get our hearts there safely. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ In the same way you can’t fall out of a hole, you can’t fall out of love. It is a two way street of course, definitely not saying it isn’t. But at the end of the day love is a choice that hopefully you’re both making. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ A lot of people would argue that the greatest act of love was Jesus dying on the cross for us to take our place in the judgement seat when our life here is done. But Jesus didn’t die on the cross in a moment of passion. He didn’t die during an emotional high. He wasn’t falling in love with us. He actually asked to not have to do it (and who could blame Him?!). But He was already in love with us. He had already made the decision that He loved us so it didn’t matter what feelings and emotions were going on, He was going to come through even in His pain and suffering and uncomfortability. He was committed to us. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ So for those of us who’s standard is to be more Christ-like, we can’t expect to live and love based on our FEELINGS and expect to have a fulfilled love life on that alone. For those of you who love hard and choose to love, in 2020 make sure the person you’re pursuing/dating is choosing you back. Like really choosing you. Take it from me, wasting time on people who aren’t loving you right is time you can’t get back and heartache in the making. For those of you still in the waiting, let this be the year you surrender control of your love life and see what God can do. ????

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Brittany and Kellan Lutz Reveal Miscarriage at 6 Months

Then on February 6, Brittany took to Instagram to say that while they are devastated to lose their daughter so soon, it was an honor and a pleasure to be her mom over the last six months.

“I did my best,” Brittany wrote. “And it was an absolute joy seeing your little face all those times on that screen and feeling your tiny kicks. I don’t know why it happened the way it did, but part of me finds so much peace knowing you never experienced pain or heartache and never will.” She continued:

“You’re in the arms of Jesus now and one day we will get to meet you for real. Until I see you in heaven… your mommy loves you so much. I’m not ready to talk about what happened, and I’m not sure I ever will. But I can say I am SO grateful for the most amazing husband who’s been by my side the entire time. I have the best most supportive family. The prayers from friends have meant everything. My incredible doctor and the amazing team at UCLA Medical Center who kept me alive are the real MVPs. And to all of you who donate blood- I have never been more grateful for you. Without you, people like me wouldn’t be here. ⁣Thank you for respecting all of our privacy right now. Gonna take some time away to process and heal.”

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????Merry Fiji Christmas 2019????

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Kellan also shared a statement, calling his wife his “wonder woman” and referring to the last week as a “rollercoaster with a lot of emotions.”

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???????? I just love him so much! ????????

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“Taking heartbrokenness to a whole new level but grateful for these past 6 months and the journey itself. In life, we might not get the answers to all of our questions but we will always remain faithful!”

Kellan continued, “I love you, Brittany. Thank you all for all your love, respect in this private time, understanding of this situation, and utmost support!” Our thoughts and prayers are with Brittany and Kellan during this difficult time.

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1 thought on “Kellan Lutz’s Wife Loses Baby at 6-Months Pregnant”

  1. This is a very sensitive subject and as a mom who has lost a child it is heartbreaking to see the inaccurate details in this article. A miscarriage is when a baby is lost between conception to 19 weeks. A stillbirth happens from 20 weeks to 40+weeks. A loss is a loss but it is really disappointing to see false information printed, especially in an article targeted towards moms. Please correct this.

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