Body Image

Lately, I have been insecure: Advice?

So lately I’ve been feeling pretty insecure about a lot of stuff. I’ve gained some weight, and some other stuff has been going on. Anyways my boyfriend and I were talking, and we got on the subject of attractiveness, and I asked him who the most attractive woman he’s been with was. He’s a really honest guy, so he’s gonna say the truth no matter what. He told me one of his exes was the most attractive people he’s been with. That really hurt my feelings. I want to feel like I’m number one to him when it comes to everything. I know I’m really sensitive, and I’ve been working hard lately on loving myself and accepting me for me and everything that comes with me. And I mean I know he’s attracted to me also but him saying that just really hurt my feelings and I’m not sure how to take it. Anonymous Community MemberThis question was asked by a Facebook community member who has asked to remain anonymous.

I am insecure after having kids: Advice?

So I just had another baby this is my 3rd child after I had my first child I’ve been insecure so bad. I’m to the point I argue with my husband because of my insecurities we could be watching a movie together and if it has an attractive female in it that has cleavage showing or they have sex in it I get in a bad mood towards him and feel he wishes I was her. I am so insecure I need help. Has anyone else felt this insecure, and how did u fix it? Anonymous Community MemberThis question was asked by a Facebook community member who has asked to remain anonymous.