My daughter is four years old and has been potty trained for nearly two years now. This past week or so, she has had about six potty “accidents.” She has peed on the sofas, in her bed, on the floor, and today she pooped herself while eating breakfast. I’m kind of torn between whether these are accidents or if it could be something I am not seeing (acting out, wanting attention, etc.) She’s never done anything like this before. She has had accidents where I know she was trying to make it and just didn’t, and that’s completely understandable. But lately, it seems as though she doesn’t even try to get up and go. She continues to play with her toys or tablet or whatever it is she’s doing at the time. She has always asked or told us when she needs to go to the bathroom. She will say, “mama, I need to potty,” and I’ll say, “okay! Go ahead and call me when you’re done.” So she knows when she has to go, and she knows how to wipe, for the most part, she’s still learning the correct way. I do follow her almost every time just to be sure she is doing everything as she is supposed to. But what I am having a hard time understanding is, when she pees or poops on herself, she doesn’t say anything. She just sits in it and goes about her day. And today, when I noticed that she pooped herself, I ask her, “what happened?” And she told me, “I pooped my pants.” I asked why she didn’t go to the bathroom, and she doesn’t say anything. ? Also: **I do have a seven-month-old daughter as well, and so far, it hasn’t caused my four-year-old to act out in any way. I stay home with them during the day, and I know they both get equal attention, and they play together as well. **went to urgent care last week to have her checked and she didn’t have any kind of bladder infection or anything of that nature
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