Anyone else have a Hating Brother-in-laws Wife? 1 New year’s eve, at her family’s event and she tells all of my Husband’s family that I’m a Drunk. I was buzzed & Her whole family was Drunk. This was six years ago, and since then She acts like I’m not there. At family gatherings. Hi here hi there to EVERYBODY ELSE. One of her kids is now on the same team as my child. I have to see her every morning and twice a week for practice and game. My significant other says she is just jealous of us being “More financially secure” that’s sad. I’m not trying to be friends or nothing our kids are cousins, and my mother in law has to be emotional about the fact that she doesn’t want to be involved if I’m hosting an event. How can someone be so Hippocratic, hate someone for drinking on a holiday and then be pouring shots at her bosses daughters party this year? How do you all co-exist with an envious person? I feel like she should mind her business and stay out of everyone else’s business. (I’m not the only family member that can’t stand her btw) It just kills the vibe when she walks in the room for Real. I hope this rant makes sense.