To The Girl Who is Perpetually Single, There is Nothing Wrong With You

Are you happy? Not everyone needs a significant other in their life to fill fulfilled.  And that’s okay.

Being single isn’t a problem and you need to remember that. Relationships are a lot of work and to be honest sometimes not worth the time.

When you are single you don’t have to worry about anyone else but yourself, and that is important. You are growing up, you’re learning about yourself and you’re working on your future.

There is no need for a man to help you do this if anything they only hinder your self-love and growth as a young woman.

Of course, though, that doesn’t mean that you don’t want a boyfriend, but you being single has nothing to do with you.

It shows that you aren’t settling, it shows that you are waiting for a man that gets you, that you have fun with and who you see as more than just someone you can take home for a night.

You are looking for something more but until you find that you’re going to have fun and that is completely okay!

You go out every night! or you stay in and watch Netflix, whatever is your thing, do it!

Because the only person you have to worry about making happy is yourself and you should enjoy that.

You are a strong, intelligent and beautiful young woman and you don’t need a man to tell you that for you to know it.

You work hard constantly to improve your life as well as remembering to have fun.

Once you settle down you will have to give up the only looking out for yourself phase and to be honest, that can be a hard transition.

So enjoy the time you have to only focus on what makes you happy because one day you will have a husband, animals maybe even kids that will make it almost impossible for you to ever think about what only you want to do.

Life has perfect timing and even though some nights you will wish you had one man to come home to and wake up next to, you will eventually have that.

And it will happen at the time you least expect it because you will be having so much fun working on yourself that the guy you thought you’d never meet will surprise the crap out of you.

Well, not literally but pretty close.

Embrace this phase in your life, but always remember, there is nothing wrong with you just because you’re single.

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