In the latest episode of her podcast, Whine Down, Kramer 37, and guest Dorinda Medley, spoke on the rollercoaster of their relationships and how to move forward after separation. Kramer informed the former Real Housewives of New York City star that since the two called it quits, Caussin has had “so much resentment.”
Medley, 56, admitted how divorce is always hard whenever there is betrayal involved, as Kramer spoke of the fallout of her divorce.
“It’s definitely hard and it’s one of those things where sometimes, like, the process with us has been really challenging because there is that betrayal,” she explained. “He has so much resentment and I’m like, ‘Wait a minute, you’re the one who hurt me. How are you being mean to me? This doesn’t add up to me.'”
“Help me understand that because I’m just losing my mind,” Kramer revealed to Medley, adding how her marriage was five years of rebuilding her relationship after discovering infidelity. “There’s a million mean things I can say to [Mike] but I’m choosing to be kind and walking through this.”
Kramer first shared how Caussin were separating in an emotional Instagram post on April 21. The two share son Jace Joseph, 2½, and daughter Jolie Rae, 5.
“‘It’s time.’ As I try to make sense of a reality I never wanted to believe could be possible again, those words have now become a reality,” the mom of two wrote. “I’ve fought y’all. I’ve loved hard. I’ve forgiven. I’ve put the work in. I’ve given everything I have, and now I have nothing else to give.”
“He broke her trust again,” a source said regarding their choice to split. “After fighting for the marriage for so long, she’s come to terms with the realization that his patterns were never going to change.”
The two previously separated in 2016 due to similar issues and wrote about how he sought sex addiction therapy in their joint book The Good Fight: Wanting to Leave, Choosing to Stay, and the Powerful Practice for Loving Faithfully. In her podcast, Kramer revealed that now their divorce will be finalized next week.
A few weeks after filing, Kramer marked what would’ve been her sixth wedding anniversary with her now ex.
“I thought not celebrating 6 years today would feel heavy and sad …. and though there is sadness in the broken, there is more joy, happiness, freedom and self-love than I’ve ever experienced,” she continued at the time. “The weight has been lifted and I welcome the unknown because there is so much beauty in what’s next,” the she added. “Find your strength and set yourself free … “
With a background in the creative and educational fields, Amelia Finefrock is freelance writer, singer-songwriter and nanny based in Chicago.
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