A mom writes in asking for advice about her infant daughter. She says she is considering moving her three-month-old out of her cot and into a single bed placed next to the parents’ bed. She says that her daughter tends to find sleeping on a bed more comfortable. Is this mom thinking too far ahead? Is it safe to put an infant in a single bed? The community weighs in with advice below.
A member of the community asks:
“I am thinking of putting my infant into a single bed: Thoughts?”
“I have a three-month-old baby girl. I’m thinking of putting her into a single bed. She has a cot, but during the day she sleeps on my bed and. I find that she is comfier and settled in mine. The last couple of nights, my partner has been sleeping on a mattress on the floor and giving the bed to us. So I was thinking of putting her onto a single bed right next to us. Am I thinking way too ahead of myself or?? Has anyone been in the same situation?? Advice, please.
Community Advice for This Mom Who Wants to Know if It Is Safe to Put Her Infant Daughter in a Single Bed
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The community offered this mom in need a lot of great advice. Read some of their responses below.
“Put her in a crib or Pack ‘N’ Play. An adult mattress isn’t a safe sleep spot for a 3-month-old.”
“I would suggest trying a crib, bassinet, co-sleeper that attaches to your bed, or even a pack and play. I understand using a mother’s instincts, and also wanting your baby to be comfy and happy. But safe sleep practices are so important. I am only sharing my opinion as I have lost a child to SIDS. If I can put my opinion out there in hopes it could help prevent an unsafe sleep situation I will. I never want a parent to go through what my husband and I have.”
“Ugh, she should be in a crib not a single bed. She should be sleeping by herself.”
“No, she needs to be at least a year before that. (Before anyone says anything, my daughter was ready at a year; she was jumping out of her crib). She’s waking up through the night because she is 3-months-old. She is supposed to do that. Anything else is the odd behavior.”
“3 months old is so tiny. I wouldn’t even put my 10-month-old anywhere but in a crib. If you can afford a single bed, you can afford a cheap crib.”
“A single bed? For a 3-month-old? Are you new? Put a pack n play or crib in your room. I’m confused about how you even think that’s safe at all.”
“Crib mattresses are safer for babies than regular mattresses. I understand being more comfortable, but if you want her to sleep on her own, she should be in a crib on a proper mattress for infants.”
“My daughter has slept with me since she was 2 weeks old. shes 15 months now! Use your momma instincts and do what’s best for you and your family!”
“Your kid should be in a crib ABC: Alone, Back, Crib. To prevent any chance of infant suffocation, diagnosed often as SIDS.”
“An adult bed isn’t a safe place for a child to sleep until they are 2. Your baby should sleep Alone, on their Back and in an empty Crib with nothing but a pacifier in it.”
“You would definitely need a side net so she can’t fall off, also that will not be fun when she learns how to crawl and falls headfirst from 6 months onward… It’s totally different to have her next to you guarded in your bed, that’s normal. A twin bed for an infant wouldn’t be very logical in my opinion.”
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