Kramer, 37, addressed the news on her Instagram, yesterday, revealing she is “taking a minute to reflect” after getting a call that the divorce was finalized.
“Today has not been easy and I didn’t know if I would even say anything. If I’m honest I had no idea how I would feel. Relieved? Sad? But I got the ‘final’ call that I’m officially divorced and the tears came,” she wrote.
“My first feeling was failure. That I failed my kids. That I was unlovable, not enough. I had moments of anger that I never wanted this for my reality, for my kids.”
She continued, “Let’s just say it was all the feels but here’s what I know….I didn’t fail my kids. I’m showing them a strong momma and I’ll continue to do that and walk away knowing I did everything I could. This isn’t the end…it’s just the beginning of my story and I’m excited, hopeful, and ready to continue the healing so I can be stronger, and love deeper. Okay back to work. Love you all! We got this !”
In the latest episode of her podcast, Whine Down, Kramer 37, and guest Dorinda Medley, spoke on the rollercoaster of their relationships and how to move forward after separation. Kramer informed the former Real Housewives of New York City star that since the two called it quits, Caussin has had “so much resentment.”
Medley, 56, admitted how divorce is always hard whenever there is betrayal involved, as Kramer spoke of the fallout of her divorce.
“It’s definitely hard and it’s one of those things where sometimes, like, the process with us has been really challenging because there is that betrayal,” she explained. “He has so much resentment and I’m like, ‘Wait a minute, you’re the one who hurt me. How are you being mean to me? This doesn’t add up to me.’”
“Help me understand that because I’m just losing my mind,” Kramer revealed to Medley, adding how her marriage was five years of rebuilding her relationship after discovering infidelity. “There’s a million mean things I can say to [Mike] but I’m choosing to be kind and walking through this.”
Kramer first shared how Caussin were separating in an emotional Instagram post on April 21. The two share son Jace Joseph, 2½, and daughter Jolie Rae, 5.
“‘It’s time.’ As I try to make sense of a reality I never wanted to believe could be possible again, those words have now become a reality,” the mom of two wrote. “I’ve fought y’all. I’ve loved hard. I’ve forgiven. I’ve put the work in. I’ve given everything I have, and now I have nothing else to give.”
With a background in the creative and educational fields, Amelia Finefrock is freelance writer, singer-songwriter and nanny based in Chicago.
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